"When
my first son was born, I asked the pediatrician
about circumcision. He
asked if I wanted it, and when I replied I wasn't
sure he stated that it was not
necessary, it was dangerous, and he had witnessed
the hearts of baby boys stop
because of the pain. I have thanked him many
times for this wonderful
advice........I am grateful my boys are intact."
---Anonymous Mom
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NEWS
FLASH!!
New Study:
Circumcision Cuts Penis Sensitivity
April 2007 Study
Full Text
This study says that
intact men have FOUR TIMES more sensitivity
than circumcised.
What does this mean? Some
circ'd men would say that they would not
want to be MORE sensitive...But I have
learned that this is a misinterpretation of
this study...
From
Marilyn Milos of
www.nocirc.org, who was involved in this
study:
"The 20,000
nerve endings that encircle the opening
of the foreskin allow a man to know what
his penis is feeling and where he is in
relation to the ejaculatory threshold.
These erogenous nerve endings allow an
intact man to learn to ride the wave to
orgasm. Without them, he goes "Ohhh,
ohhh, oops! Sorry, honey, it's because
I'm so sensitive."
In reality, it's not because he's so
sensitive, it's because the nerve
endings he's supposed to have are gone!
Someone cut them off when he was too
little to consent, resist, or escape.
Circumcised men don't ride the wave to
orgasm. My circumcised husband says,
"I've never had an orgasm. I ejaculate,
but I've never had an orgasm." In human
sexuality classes, men tell me the same
thing. And, they're happy to know they
aren't to blame for the #1 cause of
sexual dysfunction in young American
men: premature ejaculation. It's not
because they haven't read enough, had
enough experience, or are selfish
lovers, it's because they lack the nerve
endings that would allow them to have
normal sex.
As men get older and the keratinization
process causes the free nerve endings on
the glans to become more and more deeply
buried and insensitive to stimulation,
it takes the circumcised male longer and
longer to reach orgasm. This is why
older men complain about sexual
dysfunction and impotence when they get
older. That's the legacy of what we've
done to our precious husbands, brothers,
and sons...
This, in part, is why we must bring the
atrocity to an end!"
And later:
"And, yes,
it is sad. Very sad! But, once we
realize what the problem is, we can do
something about it. Men stop feeling
like it's their fault, wives stop
blaming them, couples begin to talk, and
the deep tension that underlies many
relationships because of a dysfunctional
sex life dissipates. We can work with it
when we know what "it'" is. And, we can
stop making more "it"s happen, too!
That's the good news... I hope you'll
post this, the rest of the story, too."
The rest of the story
follows...
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IT'S NOT
YOUR PENIS.
IT'S NOT YOUR DECISION.


DON'T DO IT.
Jump to the videos.
After all
the years that I've had Fresno Family and I
only am just getting around to making a page
on circumcision. I put it off because it is
a topic I feel SO strongly about. And I
didn't want to come across too strong. But now I
have a son.

And I feel even stronger about this
topic, if that's possible.
And I won't mince my words.
Study Confirms Male Circumcision is Genital Mutilation
DON'T DO IT.
DON'T DO IT.
DON'T DO IT.

Circumcision is an outdated and yes
I'll even say it...BARBARIC practice...and anyone that
truly educates themselves on the topic will see this to
be the truth. There's no reason to do it. All the
research now shows that there are NO real benefits.
IT'S
UNNECESSARY SURGERY!
Routine
Infant Circumcision is cosmetic surgery for infants.
Period.

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Let's look at the most common
reasons people circumcise:
"To look
like Daddy"--So if your son's nose doesn't look like
Daddy, are you going to have surgery on that too? How
about his ears? This makes no sense. It will be a LONG
time before your son's penis looks anything like his
father's...And by the time it does, he won't be
comparing. Your son won't care that he doesn't look like
Daddy and neither should you. He'll thank you for not
having him unnecessarily cut.
"It will protect him from
penile cancer, UTI's, AIDs, blah blah blah..."--All
of these have been proven false. Do your research. This
information is still being passed around, even by people
who should know better...It's just plain wrong and
outdated. Get your facts straight. There isn't ANYTHING
that circumcision will protect your son from.
Here is a very enlightening pamphlet that goes through
many reasons that have been given to circumcise and why
they are not true. Print it up and give to anyone
that tries to tell you otherwise.
"He'll be teased."--Actually,
with the national circumcision rate now at 55%, that's
highly unlikely (especially with our homophobic
culture)...and here in California, intact boys are in
the majority at 60% INTACT, 40% circ'd. Pretty amazing
eh? Back to the argument that he will be
teased...many kids will tease about anything and
everything...Cutting off body parts won't stop
teasing. So you're going to put your newborn son
through a painful and unnecessarily surgery just because
he MAY be teased? How about teaching him about strength
of character and that people who tease are weak and have
low self esteem?
"It's better
hygiene."--No, actually it's not.
There's nothing special about keeping a
normal, natural, intact penis clean. There's
nothing difficult about it. Anyway, some
people will never be clean, no matter how
much you cut off. Don't put your son
through an unnecessary, excruciatingly
painful amputation simply because you are
worried about his cleanliness. This is
ludicrous! Here's an interesting thought, as
one doctor wrote in "Circumcision:
A Medical
or Human Rights Issue?" that removing
the foreskin for hygiene's sake is like
removing one's eyelid for a cleaner eyeball!
"He may have to have it
done later, and that's very painful so I will save him
that by doing it while he won't remember."--This
makes no sense. Your daughters have a much higher risk
of getting breast cancer and so it would be more
beneficial, statistically speaking, to remove the breast buds of baby girls than
it would be to remove the foreskin of a baby boy, as a
preventative measure. How ridiculous does that sound?
Anyone you know that has had his foreskin removed as an
older boy or adult will most likely (perhaps even 99% of
the time) have had it done out of misinformation.
Because we have a culture of doctors that don't know
about normal, healthy, intact penises, they are
prescribing circumcision when they are unnecessary. The
foreskin is the only part of the body that is routinely
amputated from simple infections when any other part of
the body would simply be treated and cured. It makes no
sense. And one of the biggest reasons that foreskins are
getting damaged and infected is because people who don't
know better are retracting them. DON'T RETRACT YOUR
INTACT SON'S PENIS! And educate the medical
professionals that tell you to do so! The
foreskin of an intact boy is ATTACHED! It will detach as
he grows older, and this is normal and natural. As
Marilyn Milos of www.nocirc.org says...You care for an intact penis
the same way you would a finger. There's just nothing
special about caring for it! There shouldn't be any
retraction of the foreskin until it is sufficiently
detached and the boy should be the one to do it himself
at that point. You teach your intact son to hold back
the folds and wash himself just as easily as you teach
your daughter to hold back the folds of her labia and
wash herself. Boys are just as capable as girls to do
this. Don't insult them by suggesting that they are not
capable and so need surgical removal of a healthy body
part to ensure they don't forget to wash themselves!
(Trust me, it's been said!) For information on the care of your intact son's penis,
see
this pamphlet.
And Here's a
thought on the "he won't remember it"
argument--If an infant is raped, does it
have no effect on them because they are too
young to remember it? Does it make the crime
any less heinous? No! They remember on a
cellular level. Their body remembers! And if
anything, I think it actually is MORE
heinous BECAUSE it was done to them when
they were vulnerable and powerless and
trusting!
"Well it doesn't really
hurt anymore because they use anesthetic."--I've
been told that most circumcisions done in the US today
STILL do not use anesthetic, because it is dangerous to
the infant. This is the most sensitive part of a newborn
baby's body (its been said that babies are actually MORE
sensitive than adults, as far as pain felt) and you are talking about not just cutting
it off, but ripping it away (remember, it's still
attached on babies!) without any form of anesthetic.
Or if they do use anesthetic, it is highly ineffectual.
The cream pretty much doesn't do much, and is dangerous. The shot hurts
nearly as bad as the circumcision, and it has to be done
FOUR TIMES for it to actually work! Then once it wears
off they still have the pain of a healing amputation
WITHOUT ANY PAIN MEDS. Something that vaseline does
little to sooth as recurrent urination occurs in the
open wound. And all this WHY??? |

Now please do not think that I am
trying to make you feel bad.
This isn't about guilt.
This is about education.
If you've already circumcised a
son, it doesn't mean you are a bad parent. It just means
you didn't know. Marilyn Milos didn't know. She had all
her boys circ'd. They are all grown men now and she's
the founder and director of the National Organization of
Circumcision Information Resource Centers (NOCIRC)
and coordinator of the International Symposia on
Circumcision, Sexual Mutilations, and Genital Integrity.
And she's the first to tell you that she just didn't
know. When you know better, you do better.
So you say you
already circ'd one child...how can you not do the next
one? You just don't.
I could tell you of 2 local stories
of moms that did just that. And they explained to their
older sons that they just didn't know better when they
were babies. They couldn't protect them because they
didn't know. But now they know.
The boys
understand.
They really do.

I should mention that there is SO
much more information to be had on circumcision,
including that there REALLY is a purpose for the
foreskin!

If all of that doesn't convince you, try watching this:
Penn and Teller Video
WARNING!!! DO NOT WATCH THIS WITH
CHILDREN IN THE ROOM!
PENN & TELLER USE VERY FOUL LANGUAGE
AND THERE ARE VERY GRAPHIC SCENES!!
And here's another video you should watch.
Again, very graphic...but no profanity in this one.
2005 Dutch TV documentary with
English subtitles/35 min. (long download) duration:
35:07
This webpage has more circumcision video links on
it.
I urge you
to watch at least one circumcision, even if you
cannot bear it.
You do NOT have the right to
put your infant son through this and not watch what
you are subjecting him to!
As a matter of fact, you do NOT
have the right to put him through this without
educating yourself fully on all aspects of
circumcision.
You do NOT
have the right to cut off normal, healthy tissue off
the body of any non-consenting minor!
Since no national or international medical
association in the world recommends circumcision, it
can no longer be considered a medical issue,
it is a human rights issue!
Remember--It's not your
penis!
There's a LOT written on the subject
of circumcision by those
that are MUCH more qualified than I. Please educate
yourself.
Here's
just a few links to check out:


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